We went to Privata last night for the first time, and wow! For the first part of the evening we were so nervous. The prospect that we were there and could hook up with another couple really heightened the nerves. There were so many attractive people there, more than I was anticipating. There were naturally some we were not attracted to, but that’s just part of the deal. Most people were so confident and that in itself was so fun to watch, dancing, chatting, and having such a great time! The drinks were pretty reasonably priced and the place was clean. Everything was sanitized and wiped down pretty quickly, ready for the next couple. The staff were really nice and helpful if we needed anything. We were so nervous to begin with that we didn’t talk to anyone and it definitely showed. After a while, one of the regulars said I looked like a deer in the headlights, which was absolutely how I felt! I really liked how there were no “creeps” and how everyone was respectful. It was clear that people were there for a good time, not to make others uncomfortable. We did some trips through the first and second floor just to get a grip on what was going on, and the first time we watched a couple have sex downstairs was so erotic. He was really good looking and his wife/girlfriend was so attractive. They watched us watching them, and there was a bed next to them where we could have played, and maybe swapped. We weren’t quite ready for that yet. Watching them did a lot for us to get the nerves down and it was exciting to watch. Then the third floor opened and the party really started. Couples either swapped or had sex with their significant other on the public beds. It was so exciting to go watch them, and they apparently enjoyed being watched. There was a woman and her friend that went to different couples and cheered them on, it was so fun. This part of the night would have been a great time by itself. Watching these great looking people have sex was so stimulating. My wife and I, inspired, started playing with each other as we watched. We sat on a couch to make out and watch at the same time. I pulled the top of her dress down and the bottom of her dress up, to show her off. It was so hot seeing the guys and girls behind and around us looking at her, examining her hips, ass, and breasts. My wife is so beautiful with such a great body and it was so arousing to see people turned on by her. There was a couple next to us that was so gorgeous. They were late 20’s, and the guy had pulled his girlfriend’s top down while they made out and watched the couples in the bed. We really wanted to talk to them and see if there was chemistry, but we were still full of nerves. Swapping has been a fantasy for us for a while, but when actually faced with a potential opportunity, we choked, initially. We went back downstairs and saw that same couple again and when we passed them we decided we wanted to talk to them. We went back but they were gone, and we couldn’t find them again for the rest of the night, which was so disappointing. We spent some time looking for them, or another couple that checked our boxes, but most were already engaged. I wanted my wife to ask one of the wives on a public bed if she could kiss her while her and her husband fucked, but again, nerves! We went back downstairs where the ground level play room was empty. Feeling so turned on, and disappointed we missed the couple we picked out, we decided to have sex with each other. I picked out the bed at the bottom of the ramp, because I knew now that I really wanted people to see and watch my wife. I wanted it to be obvious that we wanted people to gather and watch. We took our clothes off and I had my wife blow me, with her ass facing the ramp, so when people came in they got the full view. About a dozen people walked through and watched us, really getting a great view of my wife, which was the hottest thing I have ever seen in my life. A couple was inspired to stay and got onto the bed next to us. I had my wife get on her back and spread her legs for them to watch as I played with her pussy. A third couple came in and sat on the couch near us and start playing too, watching both of us couples in the bed. They were engaged with each other, and didn’t show any interest in joining us. I asked my wife if another couple came in, if I could call them over to fuck her, and she said yes. I have never been so turned on in my life. Unfortunately no one else came in, so it didn’t happen. We are glad we went and took a baby step into our fantasy. We were worried before we went that there would be jealousy or regret. Swapping has been a fantasy of ours for a while now, but actually doing it is a huge step. With us watching, and then having sex in public, we did not feel any of the negative feelings we felt before we went in. Our first trip to Privata definitely told us we want to take it further with another couple. Today, we have shared a “dirty” little secret and we even look at other couples differently, wondering if they would be interested 😂. We have been having sex with every opportunity we have. We are absolutely going to go again, and already planned out sexier, more revealing outfits and what we want to do to step up the excitement.(Not looking for singles males).