Yes, we insta-ban all M4_ and dick pics.

Why ban?

First, we should explain why no M4_ posts or dick pics.

• No M4_ should be obvious, this is a Gone Wild subreddit. Duh?

• Then why No dick pics?

Simple, supply and demand, and a quest for quality. There is an endless supply of guys wanting to share dick pics. ENDLESS. SUPPLY. I'm a woman and I love dicks, 😋 but I've seen so many random dick pics that pictures of dicks might as well be pictures of elbows. 🙄 I'm not alone on this. Luckily for us both, we've created r/OregonMenGoneWild. 😁 When I'm ready to see your beautiful cocks, I go there. We all go there. Trust me, we go there and look at your beautiful bodies and hard throbbing cocks. 😜

Let me be clear, this is not a "hate" of cocks or a "hate" of you wanting to get laid, no, this is us creating appropriate subreddits for specific content.

Lastly, and this goes back to supply and demand, we don't want yet another subreddit that is just full of guys posting their dick pics all over and posting M4_ posts. You may have noticed that there are other Oregon and PNW specific subreddits out there, you may also notice that couples and women represent around 5-10% of content, if that. We've both been around the different scenes (kink, lifestyle, exhibitionism, etc) long enough to know that if you want quality content and a safe place for women and couples to post, you need to make it for them.

• How bad can it be?

Some days it's one or two, some days it's 10-20. Again, supply is overfilling.

Why insta-ban?

First, the rules are placed in three locations (About, Stickied, and prior to submission they are repeated again under submitting to r/OregonGoneWild), they are hard to miss. We get mistakes happen but three times and all so blatantly passed over? I think that says more about the type of content to expect from the poster then anything else.

Secondly, AND THIS IS KEY!, about 90% of those that get insta-banned never return or appeal. Looking at their histories, I believe that a lot of them are just dick pic spammers. Post in a hundred subs and see if any bites come along. They don't care what they are posting or where to.

I've been banned, what next?

Keep reading and look for the secret phrase. We unban most - when they ask NICELY and remember the secret phrase. Sending us "ur fat dumb bitchs" is not going to go over well, despite the laugh at being called "fat" - and the grammar and spelling. That's one that gets a "Perma-Ban" next to their name.

I don't want to post on r/OregonMenGoneWild because it's full of gay dudes

Yes, we've received this message A LOT, sadly. Take the compliments and move on. There are gay, bi, trans, pan and others that are looking here too.

"But there's a woman in the picture!"

Rule 7 No bulls

Few reasons:

• First should be obvious, Consent. We have to weigh on the side of caution here. It is illegal to share nudes of someone without their consent.

• Second, we don't allow men to post here in an attempt to skirt the rules. "Hey, look at the chick I banged, .... you want to be next?"

• Not the appropriate place for bulls to advertise. Head to r/OregonMenGoneWild to post pictures of YOU and you alone.

BONUS: What can I do to actually get laid?

My girlfriends and I have discussed this ad nauseam and here's what we've come to agree on:

• Don't reply with "ur hot. Kik me: Hung4you696969696969". These get deleted as fast as you sent it. Blocked if I get two.

• Be thoughtful. Grammar and spelling go a long way with all women.

• Attitude. Keep it positive. Instead of telling us what you don't like, tell us what you do like.

• Most women don't actually care about your dick. Keep that holstered until we ask. Lead with a dick pic and it's likely just going to get deleted - or sent to our friends to laugh at.

• What do you offer besides your "big" cock, "quick tongue", and confidence that "we'll have the best night ever"? Are you good at massages? Skilled fingers? Can you make me squirt with you tongue, fingers, or cock? Are you able to last more than fifteen minutes? What's your refractory time? Basically, what puts you above the other hundred guys replying?

Guys, if we want a Dom/sub/big dick/small dick/hard body/fluff body/etc it's easy for us (supply and demand). What is difficult is finding a dom that is also caring(quality). Or a hard body that has humility(quality). Tell us what is special about you.

BONUS #2: Take quality pictures.

Again, dick pics are dime a dozen. Head over to https://www.reddit.com/r/ladybonersgw/top/ for inspiration - and to see where we spend most of our time. 😜

^{The secret message: If you read this and pinky-promise to follow the rules, appeal the ban and say you pinky-promise.}