We are newbies with a trip to the Palm Springs area coming up over Labor Day weekend. I understand there is a large LGBT population and history to the area, and also something of a burgeoning lifestyle community. Is this a never-the-twain-shall-meet sort of situation, or are there any clubs or spa / pool spaces with more crossover between the communities or less of the traditional hetero swinger aversion to public bi male activities? For what it's worth, we are mostly heteroflexible in orientation, and mostly looking for parallel play / exhibitionism opportunities at this point, but like the idea of being in more mixed play environments. We're specifically considering visiting Exotic Dreams Resort and Club Inferno but would welcome suggestions for other places to check out (via a day pass, we already have accomodation). Thanks!