My wife and I have plans to visit a few lifestyle resorts this year once this virus mess is behind us. We are fairly new to the lifestyle and still learning how it works. To be honest, the most disappointing thing we have learned is how homophobic the guys in general appear to be. Many of these resorts do not host a lot of people at once, so we are nervous to become pariahs if we let people know both of us are ‘try-sexual’ meaning we are not looking for anything but willing to try most everything including hands on man-to-man contact under the pretext of pleasure is pleasure regardless of who is the giver and who is the receiver. Last year there was a female couple that were very popular. We hope to see a male couple soon. Even though it is allowed, we doubt they would be as welcomed by most there. I love that the ladies are in charge in the lifestyle, but it still feels like they are objectified to an extent by the guys. I for one would love to have the women in charge and be objectified as a guy for a change. Sounds fun and completely new in our sexual realm. I just don’t know how to subtly bring it up. Any ideas?