Hi everyone. My wife & I are likely having our first successful & happy threesome with a friend this weekend. We’ve all been tricycling really well platonically for years, he & I are both somewhere between bi/pan/heteroflexible & have been friends for almost a decade. My wife gets along with him really well & feels safe & comfortable trusting him. We’ve all danced around the idea adding sex to our relationship in the past, but are now my wife & I are in a strong enough emotional place to actually invite him into bed with us. Assuming he’s interested, I’m trying to come up with a way to actually start. I know how I’m going to tell him we’re interested, & I know how we plan to discuss intentions/boundaries, etc, but for the life of me I can’t figure out how to actually initiate when the fun time comes.

We live on the water, so assuming the first conversation goes well, we’ll probably go skinny dipping after dark & a few drinks. But from there I’m lost. “Wanna feel her tits?” Just seems silly.

Any smooth talkers have a favorite move they’d like to share?