My SO 54 M and I 55 F are looking for a guy to help us have our first bi mmf and had a few messages from an ‘experienced’ guy. We settled on our first time being with a different guy that we both seem to click with. We answered experienced guy’s next message (they just kept coming) telling him we were meeting someone this weekend and if it didn’t go as we hoped, we would get back up with him. He promptly messaged again asking who the lucky profile was.... Now I acknowledge we’re new to this but that weirded me out a little. It made me feel like he’d share our names in conversation at the drop of a hat too! Are we wrong for getting that feeling? I figured who we met was nobody’s business but ours and I’m not into kissing and telling. I mean we’re not in high school here and I never did it then! I replied to his request for who we were meeting by telling him I wasn’t comfortable with his question and we didn’t share that information and preferred to keep it between the parties meeting. He messaged again a few days later asking how our meeting went! We didn’t answer right away and he sent like 4 more asking. Then he sent a message asking if we weren’t interested any longer and if so why. My SO sent a nice short message saying we’re good and will get back with him when we were looking again maybe. He comes right back with wanting to know why we didn’t meet him! Ok I’m getting mad by now and answered him saying that to be honest, he’d made us feel rather unsettled with his questions wanting to know who, what, when, where and chalk it up to our newness but we didn’t feel comfortable sharing that info. And believe it or not, he messaged yet again like he was mad at us! And we were the weird ones cause he didn’t even ask to see nudes of me! Now, we haven’t exchanged over 5-8 messages with this guy over a one week period so it’s not like we’re BFFs. If you’ve read this far, thank you. Are we the weird ones here? Like I said, I know we’re new but, I think he was being rude, crude, and socially unacceptable. Are we wrong?