Posted in r\bisexual too but thought I’d share here.

So this past weekend a good group of friends that we have played with in the lifestyle were having a great conversation. One thing lead to another and the topic of societal views came up (what if our children were attracted to the same sex, etc). I stated that I hate labels and feel people should be free to enjoy what they like and others shouldn’t care as it doesn’t affect them. It lead to me opening up that I had been curious but hate that I can’t really say that to my “friends” and family. Surprisingly the other male admitted the same. I’ve always been able to acknowledge an attractive man and been curious on a physical level but that’s been it (or so I thought). The 4 of us ended up having a great night and he and I had a lot of firsts. It was amazing. Now I can’t stop thinking about wishing I could really be proud of my feelings. I felt this would be a good audience to tell. My wife is super supportive and considers herself bi as well. Anyway, not sure what is next but it is definitely a freeing feeling.