We are members on the usual swinger sites: AFF, SLS, Kasidie, and Quiver. And have just terrible luck finding other bi couples. The first hurdle is that it's so hard to find other couples that are both bi AND soft swap (needle in a haystack). But even when we do find a bi/bi couple that is ok with soft swap, we'll reach out to them and most times get no response. Of the few that respond, we'll open up our private gallery to them, and 90% either don't respond, or don't want to meet.

We are both in good shape- not fitness nuts, but not terrible bodies. We look good naked LOL And I don't think we're ugly either. We are not models by any means, but I don't feel we are hard on the eyes either.

So anyways... If any of you are members on any of those sites. Let me know and I'll PM you our user name. I would like for a couple (both people) to review our profile and let us know what is turning people off. I want brutal honesty.

Ironically, most of the interest we have received is from younger couples (in their 20's). Unfortunately we feel like playing that young would be weird for us, so we decline those. Just find it ironic that young couples look at our profile and are interested despite the fact that we are twice their age. But couples in our age range, aren't interested.