Can I get some advice from some of you experienced open marriage dwellers on how to broach the subject with my Wife of 20 years? Probably not an uncommon story - I care about her, love her in a way that I always want to look after her, live in a generally happy home where we function as a pretty effective couple of parents to 3 kids (4, 11, 15) - but sexually, we've been dysfunctional for many years. And to be honest I think I've past the point of viewing her as a desired sexual partner, even in the very infrequent moments of sexual physicality. We do kiss and cuddle and enjoy each other's company, tell each other we love each other, in the main, so there is still some emotional intimacy. I don't want to throw away all the good things in our relationship. Any advice would be appreciated...