Husband side here, married for over five year and together for over ten. I am interested in more of a hotwife stag/vixen dynamic. A few years ago I shared with my wife my desire to see her in bed with other men and it was a shock/awe moment for her but led to some fun sex that night. We have talked about it since and she’s givin that it’s cool to role play but never in real life. I feel it’s the societal pressures that make her feel it’s not what normal married couples do. I try to encourage her in being sexually empowered as seeing a sexually confident women is the ultimate turn on. She’s had her fun days being promiscuous that I always love to hear about. I understand communication and feeling safe are key but what I’d like to know is for you women what was it that made you consider it after some time of giving it a hard No? I try not to be a pester to my wife but I’d like to try new sexual experiences with her and she’s my center of everything. Was there something that helped you women change your mind on opening up your marriage? Any advice for a hubby that want to encourage ones wife to experience more. Thanks.