Quick history of us: My husband and I have been married for 14 years, together for 17. Swingers for the last 8, and now open for about 2ish years.

I have issues with compersion since he broke a boundary about a year an a half ago. Ever since then I’ve been uncharacteristically jealous for reasons that don’t even make sense to me. I’ve seen him and he has seen me in every possible scenario and this was never an issue, it would historically enhance our own “activities”

Just recently we went to a new, fairly expensive restaurant with friends. I saw that he messaged the girl he’s been talking to for a couple months that he would love to take her there. I want to tell him he can’t, that places we go to are off limits. He’s actually been on a few dates with her to places we go to (she’s local to us) and now I don’t want to go to those places anymore.

What is wrong with me?