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This is something we've talked about for years and isn't my issue. We both joined dating apps and I'll be the first to admit she is substantially more attractive then me. She had 1000 likes and started talking to as many people as she wanted within a day and has plans and forming connections. Me on the other hand now has 4 different dating apps (she looked over my bio and pictures and said she really likes it) I'm having no luck at all. The few people I'm connecting with seem uninterested, or simply boring. I'll have a small back and forth conversation and then nothing. I've tried to ask questions about them (if I'm being myself I'm asking questions) I've tried to flirt, and I've tried to be more aggressive. It has been two weeks and I have nothing but an overwhelming sadness for women that I'm not even all that interested in. I didn't think I'm specifically unattractive, through text I think I come off as confident. Any advice on meeting people in a ENM relationship? Any dating app advice? Is this everyone's experience?
Two weeks? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You need more time than that, Dude. I doubt you found partners that easily when you were mono/single, and dating in nonmonogamy is harder than that, not easier.
Your time is best utilized by getting out at events and meeting people in real life. The apps are a wasteland for most guys.
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