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For people successfully living this lifestyle, would you say it has been and still is a benefit in your relationship?
We are seriously considering this (about 99% sure we are going to do this) but everything I'm reading (in practically any page or comment thread) is saying how being open is a sign of the "end times" and how "if you're doing this it's because you are lacking in your relationship"
Quite honestly we are the best we've ever been and have little to no issues at all. We are both very sexual people and want to be able to experience other "flavors" if you catch my drift, and do so in a safe and trusting manner.
Everything I read and see online is doom and gloom about this whole idea so I thought I'd ask the source.
Most people open up their marriages for the wrong reasons, and that fact causes lots of drama and heartache. Even if you don't have any substantial problems, opening up the marriage introduces rather unique stressors, and things can unravel quickly if you're not on your game. To some extent, there's no way of telling how you'll react until you actually do it.
Keep in mind, though, that 95% of people are better-suited for monogamy.
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