Okay so this might be boring to most but didn’t see a ‘getting started’ flair here.

Wife and I were just on vacation overseas. The topic of opening our marriage came up (it has before) and we had a great conversation and follow up experience.

Convo short version: We are both bi M41, F35) and we both said we are interested in opening our marriage to explore same sex and opposite sex relationships (likely) swinging (maybe), hotwifing (maybe). We got deeper into reasons, hopes, hold ups etc. But overall pretty healthy conversation!

Aftermath: We both went out and enjoyed time on the town together and alone. Together a guy started talking to her while i stepped away I came back introduced myself and stepped away to continue to let them talk. She looked fun, flirty and sexy to me. I think he got nervous and talked to me a few minutes and went away. I went out one day alone and got very flirty with a man. We chatted, laughed and did a lot of petting. When he left he gave me a small peck (i told her) and said he enjoyed our time. At a different bar a woman also came to me and tried to dance with and kiss me. She was super drunk so I respectfully told her I was not interested. We traveled back separately and she told me a female bartender was very flirty and teasing her about how slow she was drinking during her layover. Only small banter happened.

We had sex when we returned and I couldn’t help but see she had her eyes closed with a huge smile on her face. I was wondering what she was thinking about and then she just said something I told her the guy I was chatting with said to me. I got so hard and almost came which she noticed! I could have asked her why she said that or what else was on her mind but i was just enjoying watching her and being in the moment! Overall seems like we bonded a bit more and took a big step forward together!