So Wifey goes out for her second date this week today with her one and only fantasy boitoy and once again she has diarrhea before leaving to meet him which is really odd except it happens every time she meets up with him. She says I make her nervous and that is the cause of it. She says she doesn't have any regrets about what she's doing or has done and is perfectly OK with the situation. She still hasn't cum with him, and he's been trying hard she says to the point he's getting frustrated now as much as she is. I've told her she isn't ready for her hook ups because of these physical reactions to their situation. She's been sharing more, but still won't get into some details if I ask about their relationship, still in DADT mode until she starts telling me other weird details out of the blue, and then shuts me out and cuts me off (no sex for me) if I want to show her some affection. Another excuse for no sex with me is her pussy is sore from the condom. She says they're both condom rookies and I believe they're using them. This afternoons chat session between them looked to be pretty serious as she was completely in her zone and shut down towards me if I asked if everything was OK. I can read her, it wasn't.

Tomorrow we'll be back to the new normal, probably, maybe...

What do you think?

here's the back story: https://www.reddit.com/r/OpenMarriage/comments/12uz4ac/boundaries_transparency_and_dadt_are_we_doing/