Tldr; went to Oasis twice. During day and night. Had a great time. Would do it again.

Hello fellow swingers, we’re back with another adventure of ours in the lifestyle. It's been awhile since we wrote something but we’ve still been around and active. Just more private parties and meetups with friends we've made throughout our time in the LS.

This past weekend we ended up checking out Oasis as we haven't been back in over a year. I (M) actually went twice, once on the Friday with a FWB who had never been. Then on Saturday with my primary partner who I do all this fun swinging with. Both days were a bit different so we wanted to share our experiences for anyone who may want to attend.

The first trip out on Friday my friend “L” we’ll call her and I decided to do a day trip. As we figured it would be a lot less people to not overwhelm her. As she doesn’t swing or anything like I do with my primary partner but she knows it's a part of my life and wanted to have a better understanding of what it's all about. We got to Oasis around 2pm. After signing in and going through the rules of the club, they asked if we wanted a tour but I had been there once before so I just took it from there and showed her around. At this point there were about 4 couples walking around or by the pool. After a quick walkthrough we dropped off our stuff at the lockers and went to grab some drinks to take to the pool and soak in the sun. We eventually changed into swimwear, although everyone else was naked or had a towel. She was a bit shy to go fully nude at this point. We took in a bit of everything, the pool, the hot tub and sauna before heading upstairs to the beds to have some fun together. No one was there as everyone was at the pools so we had our pick of the beds. We decided to fool around for a bit in every play room before heading to the room with mirrors on the ceiling. This is where things got a little interesting. As we were playing a couple entered the room and asked if they could sit on the next bed over and watch us. I said that's fine, and continued on. Then the other wife asks if she could help pleasure L. I looked at her and asked if she was ok with it and she nodded yes. Now before coming we did say we wouldn't be playing with other couples as she's not a swinger and this was just for her and I but I guess in the moment and with a few drinks she had loosened up a bit and went for it. The other wife crawls over to us and starts kissing her and sucking on her breasts. It was hot to see her like this as I never thought she would be doing something like this. Then it got a little awkward. The wife asks if her husband can join, L was a bit tipsy and hesitantly said sure. I could tell on her face that she did not want to and was just caught up in the moment. I nicely said, sorry she's a bit tipsy and this is her first time here. We aren't looking to play like this right now. I pulled her up and we left the room. We went to the other room to sit and talk and I asked her. If she actually wanted to play with them and she confirmed that she did not want to and not sure why she said yes and thanked me for pulling her away. We had talked prior to the club so I knew if anything happened like that I would have to shut it down. Now if this was with my primary partner. We would have been in a full on 4 way with that couple having a great time. Again her and I together are new to all this so there's still a lot more communication that needs to be done between her and I when it comes to all this. It's different from my primary partner as we are in sync when it comes to this stuff and know what we want and don't.

Now it's around 5pm and what we loved was the in and out privileges. We decided to go out for dinner and hangout downtown for a bit before returning later that night. We got back around 9pm and there were more people there but not too many playing yet. Most people were in the pool. We hung out, chatted with some couples, had a drink and eventually decided to go play again. Ended up in the red room and had some couples stand by the entrance watching us play. After a bit we went to check out the newbie night show they had going on. Won a free drink and left. As more people came and it got busier she did start to feel a bit overwhelmed and wanted to head out. We left by 10:30pm and that's probably when the party was starting to pick up.

Overall a great Friday at Oasis, definitely enjoyed coming during the day and hanging out. It Had a very chill vibe, basically had the whole place to ourselves and was able to actually talk to people. Which I find hard when we’re at the other clubs as they are more about dancing and loud music. Would go again during the day, maybe with other swinger friends to play with.

Saturday with my primary partner we decided to go just at night so we got there around 10pm. She and I had been there before but with friends, which I think makes the experience a lot more fun. Less pressure to find others to connect with and play if that's what you're looking for. We came though to play with each other and if we connected with another couple great. If not, we’d have fun together. Which should be most people's approach when coming to the clubs. Since she and I are quite experienced in the lifestyle (at this point for us at least), we kinda just dove in, got naked with our towels, grabbed a drink, hung out by the pool then went to play. There were a lot of people already playing. We just found our own bed at one point and did our thing. I will say this, Saturdays are for couples and single women. However we did see a couple of guys who looked to be single walking around getting a little too close to couples who were playing. Literally just right beside them watching them have sex, which kinda threw the vibe off. It felt kinda creepy and weird the way they just hovered over people. The one guy just sat there at the end of our bed watching us at one point and kinda made it weird so we got up and left. Other than that it was a fun night. We didn't meet any couples that night but we had fun being together in that environment with so many other open minded and fun couples.

I’d say a positive weekend all around at Oasis, L had a lot of fun and wants to go back and my primary partner and I want to organize some sort of meet and greet and head to Oasis with a few couples for some fun.

P.s if you made it this far. If you've messages us this past week. Just know we got flooded with messages so its been hard to get back to everyone. We appreciate everyone who reached out!