Matched some dude(31m) a month ago that hits me (44f)up here and there and because zero to no effort has been put in, we’ve never met. I say communication/text is important, he says person to person connection is more for him. Since I’m a single mom, I told him what days I’m available and he’s been busy those nights. No real text banter and yea he is cute but I’m getting zero personality.

Yea online dating sucks and it’s sort of endearing when someone texts you but really what makes people out there think that we are going to go out of our way to use our free night to get pretty to meet with someone that’s giving me basically nothing?