Title essentially. I haven’t posted in this community so apologies if this isn’t the right place / this comes across as rage bait. A bit more information:

I’m 19F and left a relationship early this year. Since, I’ve been learning a lot about myself and exploring my attraction/sexuality online. I was extremely sheltered in the lead up to this.

But I’ve never gone into anything with sex at the forefront. I don’t know if it’s just the way I write my profiles, or maybe how I present myself, but it feels as though I only manage to find people interested in sex rather than genuine connection. The thing is, I’ve never considered myself to be a particularly attractive girl. I have a very petite/skinny figure that I see a lot of men make fun of in favor of more curvaceous figures. In my mind I am the last person that would scream sex appeal.

What can I do to meet genuine people? Everyone I talk to for a bit of time eventually expresses disinterest outside of nudes/e-sex or whatever it’s called. Even though they initially say they love me and are attracted to me romantically. I feel extremely depressed by the thought that this is the only way men will ever be attracted to me.