I am a single guy in his 30s. I had one serious relationship my entire life. In school/university I never had my "party" phase. It was always focus on your career now and worry about sex later.

I think I am missing this in my life. And I know many of you will say its not worth it but I just want to go through this phase once.

I havent had much success on dating apps to find hookups. Tinder doesnt work for me at all. Maybe its just my area ?(Netherlands)

I met one woman last year on okcupid. Thats all. I think I was just lucky.

Any advice on how to find lots of casual sex partners? I want to find partners(women) where we are clear from the start what is the expectation of our connection.