My second wife moved out of my house 5 years ago. Since then I have been on and off of online dating platforms. I’ve used Match, Bumble, Tinder, Facebook Dating, Hinge and recently I’ve tried BOO. I’ve met and gone out with people from every site except BOO.

Sometimes I’m only on one platform at a time. Sometimes I’m on multiple platforms at the same time.

I see some new people from time to time, but overwhelmingly, I see the same people on every single platform. I get likes from the same women over and over again. I’ve chatted with several that don’t go anywhere. Then, the next time I get on that app, they like my profile again. I’ve tried talking to a couple of them the second time they liked my profile. Same results as the first time; going nowhere. One of them liked my profile a third time. I’m not going to bother.

The ones you do you out with eventually wind up back on the apps. That’s why I say the grass isn’t green. No one wants to make a commitment. The ones that do are so freaking far away it’s almost impossible to date them.