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New to OLD and how do I [34F] navigate wanting to start a family when matching with men around my age?
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ellaellafelle is looking for a female
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Now I know it's not something to bring up as soon as I match with someone and start talking to them, but having been through a divorce before and feeling like my body clock is only getting faster, how do I navigate that delicate conversation about wanting to start a family with the right man when I'm finding most men I'm matching with already have children?

I really don't want to invest a lot of time and effort into someone if our future goals don't match and this is a big one for me, I was trying with my ex-husband when we were still married, and I know relationships take time to build but I'd love to be able to find that special someone and start trying again relatively soon, the only issue being I feel most men would run if they heard me actually saying that.

I guess I'm just open to any advice others have who've been in a similar situation or who would have some helpful thoughts to share that might be useful for me to consider.

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