There's some men who will fuck anything.  There are absolutely people who want to hook up with the these girls.  If anything, they probably get propositioned more often, because hot girls are, sadly, probably getting treated with more respect when they match someone.

Eh, my wife and I do this, MF4F.  We don't typically meet people IRL because it feels awkward and we don't want to be creepy.

We do really well online, but we have our profile set to incognito. So we have to swipe right on someone before they can see us.  Not sure how many other couples do that but it could explain OPs predicament... 😅

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I get that you don't care.

Bingo. Neither does bumble. Their official reddit account says couples profiles are fine. https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/po7jef/comment/hcvzinl and there's no reason why m4f would be more ethical than f4f.

There's also bi women. And we've matched with lesbians too. Not every profile is meant for every other profile.

Good thing my wife is bi, so she'd qualify as a queer woman.

On the f4f side of any app, you'll see a very high concentration of couples.

Probably Feeld will have people who are already experienced with it, so I might recommend that. I've heard a lot of horror stories where it's the couple's first time, and halfway through the act, the wife realizes she's not into it and kicks the new girl out suddenly. This is why my profile says "we're experienced with this kind of thing"!

Feeld also lets you filter specifically for couples. Though some couples might only play separately.

3fun might not be bad on the unicorn side, since it should be close to 100% couples that play together. If you're near a decent size city, it should have a lot of options for you.

If you're new to it, a few more bits of advice: be hesitant with a couple that has a bunch of rules. I'd ask "do y'all have any rules I should be aware of? Is she fully bisexual?" (Read: does she go down on women) and go from there. EG some couples might not actually I want you to fuck the guy, just blow him. For us, the answers would be " no limits, everything is on the table" and "Yes she is fully bisexual". A lot of rules can make things awkward, and suggests to me that someone isn't fully on board.

Last bit: figure out if they're looking for something casual or a full-on throuple or poly relationship. I would be wary of the ones wanting a throuple. Maybe if it develops into that, fine, but I feel like these people just aren't realistic if that's their primary goal. I've just also heard horror stories of these couples getting very pushy and controlling.

All the major apps can and have worked for me, with the profile designated as male or female.  I put both our names in, eg "Jack and Jill" as the name, make it very clear that we're a couple. 

Bumble, hinge, tinder.  Feeld is enm-specific and very good for it too.   

3fun was useless, because anyone who's on 3fun is already on Feeld, generally.

Yeah, people like you are why I didn't post it.