Ill try to keep this in mind to help me push forward

Noted lol thank you

My areas quite liberal but i havent found any groups or anything, where could i find them? Facebook?

Im on them all, but regular apps like tinder do let you search for women as a women. I get likes and matches just no conversation really

Well it sucks cuz i "worked on myself" and became the "best version of myself" and yet my pools smaller than ever. Which is some crap

I cant rlly change that stuff, i definitely wont get into a relationship where possible resentment could come up over time either thats super not fair to them and i shouldnt change myself to fit other people either. I wish i liked more standard stuff that would make my life easier lol

Im just me looking for someone like me, im sure were all doing the same

My friends are all friends with each other tbh. But yeah ive been mixing online & in person i go to queer events around me as much as possible, gets me outta the house too

I drive all the time i have no issue with driving a long time, but they also have to be okay with that and usually theyre not. My best means to find people are queer apps like HER and bumble hasnt been bad. And listing myself as nonmonogamous and nonbinary. Its not given me much tho, matches sure but no conversation. im not interested in straight people or monogamy it doesnt interest me, idk how yall do it lol monogamy especially idk how thats just default

Probably, i try to target bi and pan women but not everyone lists their sexuality in their bio so its a guessing game

I mean my sexuality is my sexuality. I wish i liked men or something but i dont. I tried monogamy and i hated it, i tried a vanilla relationship and i hated that too. Just unfulfilling. I can't really change who i am, just sucks that who i am isnt "normal"

I thought so, but gender is as core as sexuality. Only leeway is giving up relationship types and not being who i am in bed, which i dont think is possible

Well monogamous or nonmonogamous is a term you have to be one of the two, or poly. Its just the relationship type u prefer. Kinky or vanilla is the same, maybe ur in the middle thats still a discriptor of what ur into. how u behave in bed has a description as well whatever that may be, again its what ur into. And for u women works to explain ur gender, nonbinary does for me, tranfeminine to be more specific.