I’m a female who joined the group as an active online dater. The rules are don’t share screenshots/details outside of the group. Nothing leaves the group. The group states it was created to help women who online date stay away from bad men. But the group isn’t about that. It’s full of jaded women who turn on eachother. A woman will post a pic of a guy, talk about her bad experience and either warn or seek advice. Majority of women will defend her in the comments, but there’s always that one sneaky woman lurking that sends the post to the guy. I myself posted two different men on different occasions asking if any girls had tea on him. Both of my post got back to the men from someone in that group. I made a post about the snitching. And I got banned. I got banned for speaking up. For saying this group is full of jaded and sneaky women. These women are not looking out for eachother at all. Now granted someone of the men posted did do some nasty things to alot of women in the same city. But for the most part, most posts are women complaining about stupid shit. Omg we went on a first date with great chemistry and he didn’t text me back. Or howcome he doesn’t text me everyday. A bunch of women in their 30s who are too busy analyzing every action a man does. A bunch of miserable women. I can’t believe I joined that shit.