So I've been on tinder, hinge and bumble(on and off) for a year now and man I hate it so much.

I like to think if myself as a fairly attractive guy who's got a good personality etc... Definitely don't hold myself in any bad regard. But man I keep matching with women, and they either never reply back, or if we do meet they either don't look like their pictures, are absolutely bad communicators(texting/calling, etc..), or have boring personalities.

Is it so hard to find genuine people who know what they are looking for and actually out effort into it. Like if you don't have time to date or don't reply delete your account, and if you're interested in someone put in some effort, if you stop texting I'll hit them up with the, are you interested still text, and won't pursue further because I can't be doing all the work.