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How might you deal with questions that "might" be fair, but are also odd and make you uncomfortable?
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I (30's M), matched with two women (30's F).

(1) First scenario, she asked me for my last name in the first few messages.

(2) Second wanted me to explain why I chose to match with her.

I didn't answer the questions in the way they preferred, and was unmatched by each (which I don't mind) -- But one reason is because I was uncomfortable with each.

For me personally, I feel like these questions are a bit odd for the initial 5-10 messages.

How might you handle these questions if they made you uncomfortable?

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