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r/OnlineAffairs

126,031 subscribers

This is a subreddit for attached or married redditors who are are looking for a discreet online relationship with other attached or married redditors.

Moderators

Updated Jan 26, 2025

u/Icecold_82 Active

Added 4 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/audiogonewild

u/letshavevafun Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/RoanokeGoneWild

u/Valiric999 Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 1 day ago

u/AMixofOldandNew Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs

u/PM_Me-Your_Perineum Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 1 day ago

u/sarahstales Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 1 day ago

u/AcornSpider Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 1 day ago

u/Ripfez Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 1 day ago

Also moderates: r/bwc, r/bwc4ebony

u/floodassistant Active

Added 3 months ago

Also moderates: r/vancouverr4r, r/OhioHookups, r/ReactionVideos, r/NanaimoR4R, r/AskWomenAdviceNSFW, and 127 more...

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/OnlineAffairs by no-zucchini-please

55 minutes ago

View Post: 34 [M4F] need a friend?

1

34 [M4F] need a friend?

M4F

Posted by no-zucchini-please

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

1 week

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

2

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

1

Profile updated: 1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

1 hour ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Nice_Ferret_8971

2 hours ago

View Post: 39[M4F] CST/MST Wanna see a magic trick?

1

39[M4F] CST/MST Wanna see a magic trick?

M4F

Posted by Nice_Ferret_8971

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

3 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

2

Link Karma

2

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 4 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

2 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by cssindc

2 hours ago

View Post: 36 [M4F] - CST - Late night and I’m here again

1

36 [M4F] - CST - Late night and I’m here again

M4F

Posted by cssindc

Account Strength

80%

Account Age

6 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

165

Link Karma

18

Comment Karma

147

Profile updated: 2 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

2 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by gutterfinch

2 hours ago

View Post: 39[M4F] What if we were like actually friends too?

1

39[M4F] What if we were like actually friends too?

M4F

Posted by gutterfinch

Account Strength

60%

Account Age

6 years

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1,721

Link Karma

638

Comment Karma

1,083

Profile updated: 4 days ago

Posts updated: 3 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

3 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by sunlans

2 hours ago

View Post: 34[m4f] Be the reason I smile when I look at my phone

1

34[m4f] Be the reason I smile when I look at my phone

M4F

Posted by sunlans

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

2 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

7

Link Karma

7

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 12 hours ago

Posts updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

3 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by burnsidebummin

2 hours ago

View Post: 33 M4F #PNW

1

33 M4F #PNW

M4F

in PNW

Posted by burnsidebummin

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

4

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

3

Profile updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

3 hours ago in PNW

to r/OnlineAffairs by Deadbedroomburner951

2 hours ago

View Post: 41[M4F] PST. We lurk, we message, and we post.

4

41[M4F] PST. We lurk, we message, and we post.

M4F

Posted by Deadbedroomburner951

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

65

Link Karma

7

Comment Karma

58

Profile updated: 5 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

3 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Alive_Culture_2325

2 hours ago

View Post: 36 M4F CST Message me if your love language is movies

1

36 M4F CST Message me if your love language is movies

M4F

Posted by Alive_Culture_2325

Account Strength

Pending

Account Age

n/a

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

n/a

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n/a

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile update pending..

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by DistinctSelection515

2 hours ago

View Post: 36 [m4f] Handsome, married guy seeking a specific arrangement

0

36 [m4f] Handsome, married guy seeking a specific arrangement

M4F

Posted by DistinctSelection515

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

1 week

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 6 days ago

Posts updated: 15 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by No_Discussion_108

2 hours ago

View Post: 26 M4F [DC, MD, VA] - Give me your tired, your lurkers, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free

1

26 M4F [DC, MD, VA] - Give me your tired, your lurkers, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free

M4F

in DMV/DC/NOVA

Posted by No_Discussion_108

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

9

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

8

Profile updated: 18 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago in DMV/DC/NOVA

to r/OnlineAffairs by Equivalent-Lie7846

2 hours ago

View Post: 32[M4F] #PA/ online realistic expectations

1

32[M4F] #PA/ online realistic expectations

M4F

in Pennsylvania

Posted by Equivalent-Lie7846

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

3 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago in Pennsylvania

to r/OnlineAffairs by Glittering-Staff1885

2 hours ago

View Post: 28 M4F #Online - Fun flirty and not afraid of feelings

1

28 M4F #Online - Fun flirty and not afraid of feelings

M4F

in online

Posted by Glittering-Staff1885

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

10 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 3 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by drdeadbed

2 hours ago

View Post: 36 [M4F] Cure for the Sunday scaries? Fresh week and fresh feels. #Denver #Online

1

36 [M4F] Cure for the Sunday scaries? Fresh week and fresh feels. #Denver #Online

M4F

in Denver, CO

Posted by drdeadbed

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

205

Link Karma

204

Comment Karma

1

Profile updated: 1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago in Denver, CO

to r/OnlineAffairs by Natural-Watch1998

2 hours ago

View Post: 36 (M4F) Three Truths and a Lie

1

36 (M4F) Three Truths and a Lie

M4F

Posted by Natural-Watch1998

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

2 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

578

Link Karma

6

Comment Karma

572

Profile updated: 5 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by BulgingBoxers50

2 hours ago

View Post: 50 [M4F] Looking for a playmate not a soulmate

0

50 [M4F] Looking for a playmate not a soulmate

M4F

Posted by BulgingBoxers50

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

197

Link Karma

143

Comment Karma

54

Profile updated: 1 week ago

Posts updated: 5 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by HealthcareDirector88

2 hours ago

View Post: 39 [m4F] Midwest surgery director looking for a forever ever

0

39 [m4F] Midwest surgery director looking for a forever ever

M4F

Posted by HealthcareDirector88

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

4 months

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

139

Link Karma

44

Comment Karma

95

Profile updated: 1 week ago

Posts updated: 4 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

4 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by inconceivable_5337

2 hours ago

View Post: 37 [M4F].....Almost is close, but yet so far!

2

37 [M4F].....Almost is close, but yet so far!

M4F

Posted by inconceivable_5337

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

3 weeks

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

3

Link Karma

3

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 6 days ago

Posts updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by whyamihere7155

2 hours ago

View Post: 33 [M4F] it’s Sunday and I won’t sleep for awhile. Tell me what I should read. #EST

2

33 [M4F] it’s Sunday and I won’t sleep for awhile. Tell me what I should read. #EST

M4F

in EST

Posted by whyamihere7155

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

10 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 2 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago in EST

to r/OnlineAffairs by asmartusernameishere

2 hours ago

View Post: 38 [M4F] Online/Anywhere - Fun, attraction & distraction from adults, for adults

1

38 [M4F] Online/Anywhere - Fun, attraction & distraction from adults, for adults

M4F

Posted by asmartusernameishere

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

4 years

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

n/a

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Wonderful-Buyer264

2 hours ago

View Post: 28 [M4F] #Michigan Looking For My Lobster

1

28 [M4F] #Michigan Looking For My Lobster

M4F

in Michigan

Posted by Wonderful-Buyer264

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

11 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

39

Link Karma

22

Comment Karma

17

Profile updated: 6 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago in Michigan

to r/OnlineAffairs by PassengerSavings757

2 hours ago

View Post: 46 [M4F] #VA #EST #Norfolk – Friends With Benefits

2

46 [M4F] #VA #EST #Norfolk – Friends With Benefits

M4F

in Norfolk, VA

Posted by PassengerSavings757

Account Strength

Pending

Account Age

n/a

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

n/a

Link Karma

n/a

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile update pending..

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago in Norfolk, VA

to r/OnlineAffairs by Friendly-Crew-9715

2 hours ago

View Post: 24 [M4F] #FL - in committed relationship (not married) looking for online fwb

0

24 [M4F] #FL - in committed relationship (not married) looking for online fwb

M4F

in Florida

Posted by Friendly-Crew-9715

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

3 months

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

n/a

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 8 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago in Florida

to r/OnlineAffairs by 1marubiks

2 hours ago

View Post: 38 [M4F] 🔍 Searching For My "Bestie with Benefits!"

3

38 [M4F] 🔍 Searching For My "Bestie with Benefits!"

M4F

Posted by 1marubiks

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

2 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

4

Link Karma

4

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 2 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by AromaticAntelopes

2 hours ago

View Post: 35 [M4F] #Online - What Project Will You Finaly Finish In 2025?

1

35 [M4F] #Online - What Project Will You Finaly Finish In 2025?

M4F

in online

Posted by AromaticAntelopes

Account Strength

70%

Account Age

2 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

589

Link Karma

288

Comment Karma

193

Profile updated: 6 days ago

Posts updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by vikingesque

2 hours ago

View Post: 50 [M4F] #Chicago-is/Anywhere : Looking for someone skilled in the art of "Yes And..." to Rub Brains With

0

50 [M4F] #Chicago-is/Anywhere : Looking for someone skilled in the art of "Yes And..." to Rub Brains With

M4F

in Chicago-is/Anywhere

Posted by vikingesque

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

300

Link Karma

126

Comment Karma

174

Profile updated: 3 days ago

Posts updated: 4 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in Chicago-is/Anywhere