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r/OnlineAffairs

128,046 subscribers

This is a subreddit for attached or married redditors who are are looking for a discreet online relationship with other attached or married redditors.

Moderators

Updated Jan 30, 2025

u/Icecold_82 Active

Added 4 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/audiogonewild

u/letshavevafun Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/RoanokeGoneWild

u/Valiric999 Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 21 hours ago

u/AMixofOldandNew Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs

u/PM_Me-Your_Perineum Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 21 hours ago

u/sarahstales Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 21 hours ago

u/AcornSpider Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 21 hours ago

u/Ripfez Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 21 hours ago

Also moderates: r/bwc, r/bwc4ebony

u/floodassistant Active

Added 4 months ago

Also moderates: r/vancouverr4r, r/OhioHookups, r/ReactionVideos, r/NanaimoR4R, r/AskWomenAdviceNSFW, and 127 more...

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/OnlineAffairs by Kooky_Ad848

13 minutes ago

View Post: 36[M4F] #Ny Not sure if I’ll find anyone but trying again

1

36[M4F] #Ny Not sure if I’ll find anyone but trying again

M4F

in New York

Posted by Kooky_Ad848

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

3 weeks

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 34 minutes ago

Posts updated: 1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

2 hours ago in New York

to r/OnlineAffairs by Rogue_Ambitions

5 hours ago

View Post: 33M4F #Midwest - Friyay is Finally Here!

1

33M4F #Midwest - Friyay is Finally Here!

M4F

in Midwest

Posted by Rogue_Ambitions

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

6 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

8

Link Karma

11

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 3 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago in Midwest

to r/OnlineAffairs by SexyJava

5 hours ago

View Post: 56 [M4F] #online - I didn't think it would be this difficult to find the perfect online connection!

1

56 [M4F] #online - I didn't think it would be this difficult to find the perfect online connection!

M4F

in online

Posted by SexyJava

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

4 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 2 days ago

Posts updated: 2 months ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by NoNameIsLeft

5 hours ago

View Post: 30 [M4F] Let's rediscover those butterflies #Australia/#Online

1

30 [M4F] Let's rediscover those butterflies #Australia/#Online

M4F

in Australia

Posted by NoNameIsLeft

Account Strength

90%

Account Age

11 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

652

Link Karma

602

Comment Karma

31

Profile updated: 1 week ago

Posts updated: 1 year ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in Australia

to r/OnlineAffairs by Own_Tomatillo5344

5 hours ago

View Post: 28M4f

1

28M4f

M4F

Posted by Own_Tomatillo5344

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

7 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

25

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

24

Profile updated: 4 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by WinterSoldier889

5 hours ago

View Post: 35 (M4F) Maryland looking for an adventure

0

35 (M4F) Maryland looking for an adventure

M4F

in Maryland

Posted by WinterSoldier889

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 month

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

27

Link Karma

27

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 3 days ago

Posts updated: 13 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in Maryland

to r/OnlineAffairs by throwawayfun451

5 hours ago

View Post: 45 [M4F] #NY #Online Dom guy for cheeky sub thong girl

0

45 [M4F] #NY #Online Dom guy for cheeky sub thong girl

M4F

in New York

Posted by throwawayfun451

Account Strength

80%

Account Age

9 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

7,124

Link Karma

1,135

Comment Karma

5,989

Profile updated: 11 hours ago

Posts updated: 3 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in New York

to r/OnlineAffairs by Chuck_Balaclava

5 hours ago

View Post: 41 [M4F] Bearded Creative Seeking more than Small Talk, and a Dash of Feels #Melbourne #Australia or #Online

0

41 [M4F] Bearded Creative Seeking more than Small Talk, and a Dash of Feels #Melbourne #Australia or #Online

M4F

in Melbourne, Australia

Posted by Chuck_Balaclava

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

15

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

14

Profile updated: 3 days ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in Melbourne, Australia

to r/OnlineAffairs by alfbaix

5 hours ago

View Post: 43 [M4F] #Spain, #Europe. looking for a connection

0

43 [M4F] #Spain, #Europe. looking for a connection

M4F

in Spain

Posted by alfbaix

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

2 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

75

Link Karma

75

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 5 days ago

Posts updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

6 hours ago in Spain

to r/OnlineAffairs by gallium_31

5 hours ago

View Post: [M4F] 30M looking for something casual - chat and trade nudes

0

[M4F] 30M looking for something casual - chat and trade nudes

M4F

Posted by gallium_31

Account Strength

Pending

Account Age

n/a

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

n/a

Link Karma

n/a

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile update pending..

to r/OnlineAffairs

7 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Negative-Progress567

5 hours ago

View Post: 33M4F Lets start at the very beginning, a very good place to start. #Perth #Australia

0

33M4F Lets start at the very beginning, a very good place to start. #Perth #Australia

M4F

in Perth, Australia

Posted by Negative-Progress567

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

2 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

36

Link Karma

2

Comment Karma

34

Profile updated: 1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

7 hours ago in Perth, Australia

to r/OnlineAffairs by Emergency_Sink_1333

5 hours ago

View Post: 32 [M4F] Quality conversations

0

32 [M4F] Quality conversations

M4F

Posted by Emergency_Sink_1333

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

5 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

8 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Allbymyself80

5 hours ago

View Post: 40 [M4F] #Australia Brisbane Seeking a lover

0

40 [M4F] #Australia Brisbane Seeking a lover

M4F

in Brisbane, Australia

Posted by Allbymyself80

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

2 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

16

Link Karma

15

Comment Karma

1

Profile updated: 3 days ago

Posts updated: 3 weeks ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

9 hours ago in Brisbane, Australia

to r/OnlineAffairs by Confident-Trip9900

5 hours ago

View Post: 34 [M4F] UK, kink, BDSM, feelings, cuddles, snacks, love?

4

34 [M4F] UK, kink, BDSM, feelings, cuddles, snacks, love?

M4F

Posted by Confident-Trip9900

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

9 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

26

Link Karma

14

Comment Karma

12

Profile updated: 2 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

9 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by summer_fun_ca

5 hours ago

View Post: 45 [M4F] my heart is open, willing, ready and looking for a home

0

45 [M4F] my heart is open, willing, ready and looking for a home

M4F

Posted by summer_fun_ca

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

2 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

6

Link Karma

6

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

9 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by The_BuiltBeardedDadd

5 hours ago

View Post: 34 [M4F] #Texas / #Online – Big Bearded Dad Seeking a Devoted, Discreet friendship

2

34 [M4F] #Texas / #Online – Big Bearded Dad Seeking a Devoted, Discreet friendship

M4F

in Texas

Posted by The_BuiltBeardedDadd

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

2 weeks

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

22

Link Karma

6

Comment Karma

16

Profile updated: 4 days ago

Posts updated: 2 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

9 hours ago in Texas

to r/OnlineAffairs by eroticminds555

5 hours ago

View Post: 33M4F CA/Online | A True Connection

0

33M4F CA/Online | A True Connection

M4F

in California

Posted by eroticminds555

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

9 months

Verified Email

No

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

5

Link Karma

5

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago in California

to r/OnlineAffairs by AdorkableMcDorkface

5 hours ago

View Post: 39 [M4F] #STL #MO Sapiosexual man seeking passionately curious cutie

1

39 [M4F] #STL #MO Sapiosexual man seeking passionately curious cutie

M4F

in Missouri

Posted by AdorkableMcDorkface

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

1 month

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

5

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

4

Profile updated: 1 day ago

Posts updated: 3 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago in Missouri

to r/OnlineAffairs by Outside-Pension7280

5 hours ago

View Post: 28[M4F] Married Telugu(Desi) guy seeking a passionate discreet Desi Woman in Dallas,TX for a ONS/Short term fling.

1

28[M4F] Married Telugu(Desi) guy seeking a passionate discreet Desi Woman in Dallas,TX for a ONS/Short term fling.

M4F

in Dallas, TX

Posted by Outside-Pension7280

Account Strength

80%

Account Age

4 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

2

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

1

Profile updated: 5 days ago

Posts updated: 2 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago in Dallas, TX

to r/OnlineAffairs by Simple_Surprise6423

5 hours ago

View Post: 38 (M4F) slim/fit rocker guy looking for my puzzle piece.

1

38 (M4F) slim/fit rocker guy looking for my puzzle piece.

M4F

Posted by Simple_Surprise6423

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

6 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

24

Link Karma

12

Comment Karma

12

Profile updated: 4 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by No-Bat-4924

5 hours ago

View Post: 31 [M4F] Looking for someone fun

1

31 [M4F] Looking for someone fun

M4F

Posted by No-Bat-4924

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

3 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

53

Link Karma

39

Comment Karma

14

Profile updated: 1 week ago

Posts updated: 3 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by sphericalmess

5 hours ago

View Post: 30 [M4F] PST - only click if you’re looking for endless compliments and something wholesome

1

30 [M4F] PST - only click if you’re looking for endless compliments and something wholesome

M4F

Posted by sphericalmess

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

4 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

203

Link Karma

48

Comment Karma

155

Profile updated: 20 hours ago

Posts updated: 1 week ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by diamondindirt40

5 hours ago

View Post: 40 [m4f] anyone unable to sleep tonight and looking for a light hearted connect

1

40 [m4f] anyone unable to sleep tonight and looking for a light hearted connect

M4F

Posted by diamondindirt40

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

3 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 6 days ago

Posts updated: 4 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by iamholaworld

5 hours ago

View Post: [M4A] Winter Blues? Let’s Make Things a Bit Warmer. #germany #europe

3

[M4A] Winter Blues? Let’s Make Things a Bit Warmer. #germany #europe

M4A

in Germany

Posted by iamholaworld

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

4 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago in Germany

to r/OnlineAffairs by No_Discussion_108

5 hours ago

View Post: 26 M4F [DC MD VA] - Give me your tired, your lurkers, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free

1

26 M4F [DC MD VA] - Give me your tired, your lurkers, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free

M4F

in DC MD VA

Posted by No_Discussion_108

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

9

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

8

Profile updated: 5 days ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago in DC MD VA