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r/OnlineAffairs

128,046 subscribers

This is a subreddit for attached or married redditors who are are looking for a discreet online relationship with other attached or married redditors.

Moderators

Updated Mar 2, 2025

u/Icecold_82 Active

Added 4 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/audiogonewild

u/letshavevafun Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/RoanokeGoneWild

u/Valiric999 Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 1 hour ago

u/AMixofOldandNew Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs

u/PM_Me-Your_Perineum Removed

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Also moderates: r/bwc, r/bwc4ebony

u/floodassistant Active

Added 5 months ago

Also moderates: r/vancouverr4r, r/OhioHookups, r/ReactionVideos, r/NanaimoR4R, r/AskWomenAdviceNSFW, and 135 more...

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/OnlineAffairs by Dull_Good7185

1 hour ago

View Post: 36yo F4M. Looking for deep connection. #UK #northwest.

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36yo F4M. Looking for deep connection. #UK #northwest.

F4M

in United Kingdom

Posted by Dull_Good7185

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 hour ago in United Kingdom

to r/OnlineAffairs by rolldice87

1 hour ago

View Post: 36 [F4M] Looking for a thrill. PNW

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36 [F4M] Looking for a thrill. PNW

F4M

Posted by rolldice87

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 hour ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by sweetnsassyxo

1 hour ago

View Post: 33F4M plus size, sassy and fun. What more could you be looking for in an AP?

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33F4M plus size, sassy and fun. What more could you be looking for in an AP?

F4M

Posted by sweetnsassyxo

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to r/OnlineAffairs

3 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Lonely_Nebula_8496

1 hour ago

View Post: 33 [F4M] Lonely BBW searching for a Daddy.

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33 [F4M] Lonely BBW searching for a Daddy.

F4M

Posted by Lonely_Nebula_8496

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to r/OnlineAffairs

5 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Illustrious-Good-695

1 hour ago

View Post: 30 [F4M] #online in need of some butterflies and a little (big) bit of spice

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30 [F4M] #online in need of some butterflies and a little (big) bit of spice

F4M

in online

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to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by passthevibecheckbruh

1 hour ago

View Post: “I talk a lot, so I’ve just learned to tune myself out.” 30 #F4A #Online

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“I talk a lot, so I’ve just learned to tune myself out.” 30 #F4A #Online

F4A

in f4a

Posted by passthevibecheckbruh

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to r/OnlineAffairs

13 hours ago in f4a

to r/OnlineAffairs by No_Contact_6436

1 hour ago

View Post: 31 [F4M] #online Looking for that one who got away... And losing hope... Z....

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31 [F4M] #online Looking for that one who got away... And losing hope... Z....

F4M

in online

Posted by No_Contact_6436

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to r/OnlineAffairs

14 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by humdiggyz

14 hours ago

View Post: 23 [f4a] #washington hoping to connect with you!

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23 [f4a] #washington hoping to connect with you!

F4A

in Washington

Posted by humdiggyz

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to r/OnlineAffairs

14 hours ago in Washington

to r/OnlineAffairs by Ok_Sugar6714

14 hours ago

View Post: 58 F4F Pensacola to Mobile area

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58 F4F Pensacola to Mobile area

F4F

Posted by Ok_Sugar6714

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to r/OnlineAffairs

14 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by localladyluck

14 hours ago

View Post: 41 [F4M] TN/Online… a little time to myself tonight

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41 [F4M] TN/Online… a little time to myself tonight

F4M

in Tennessee

Posted by localladyluck

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to r/OnlineAffairs

15 hours ago in Tennessee

to r/OnlineAffairs by EquivalentBeing540

14 hours ago

View Post: 29 [F4M] MD

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29 [F4M] MD

F4M

Posted by EquivalentBeing540

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to r/OnlineAffairs

16 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by RightPossibility486

14 hours ago

View Post: 39 [f4m]looking for my soft place to land

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39 [f4m]looking for my soft place to land

F4M

Posted by RightPossibility486

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to r/OnlineAffairs

18 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by soymilklatte-

14 hours ago

View Post: 30[F4M] Not serious… just curious 👀

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30[F4M] Not serious… just curious 👀

F4M

Posted by soymilklatte-

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to r/OnlineAffairs

19 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Euphoric-Fun-6251

14 hours ago

View Post: 22 (F4M) looking for that ‘something more’

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22 (F4M) looking for that ‘something more’

F4M

Posted by Euphoric-Fun-6251

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to r/OnlineAffairs

19 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by New-Product-801

14 hours ago

View Post: 41 [F4M] #Online #PST // Connect over any of the following [anti-MAGA, cooking, 2E kids, praise kinks, startup life, career changes, kids <10, neurodivergence, culture, vanity, music, exhibitionism, vouyerism, investing, daddy/mommy issues, how to prepare for the end of the world]

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41 [F4M] #Online #PST // Connect over any of the following [anti-MAGA, cooking, 2E kids, praise kinks, startup life, career changes, kids <10, neurodivergence, culture, vanity, music, exhibitionism, vouyerism, investing, daddy/mommy issues, how to prepare for the end of the world]

F4M

in online

Posted by New-Product-801

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to r/OnlineAffairs

21 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by pollenbuu

14 hours ago

View Post: 31 [F4F] Midwest — I want to get to know you.

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31 [F4F] Midwest — I want to get to know you.

F4F

Posted by pollenbuu

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Minute-Breakfast6353

1 day ago

View Post: 40 [F4M] EST: Looking For A 90s Guy

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40 [F4M] EST: Looking For A 90s Guy

F4M

Posted by Minute-Breakfast6353

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by flymeaway2

1 day ago

View Post: 41[F4F] Massachusetts/Online - tired of being curious...

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41[F4F] Massachusetts/Online - tired of being curious...

F4F

in Massachusetts

Posted by flymeaway2

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Posts updated: 8 months ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago in Massachusetts

to r/OnlineAffairs by Potential_Gazelle76

1 day ago

View Post: 28 (F4M) could you be the one

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28 (F4M) could you be the one

F4M

Posted by Potential_Gazelle76

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Glittering_Floor358i

1 day ago

View Post: 27 [F4M] Ohio maybe you are here

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27 [F4M] Ohio maybe you are here

F4M

in Ohio, OH

Posted by Glittering_Floor358i

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago in Ohio, OH

to r/OnlineAffairs by mysticalkitt

1 day ago

View Post: 26[F4A] #online - looking for a nerdy & flirty pocket pal? Details below!

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26[F4A] #online - looking for a nerdy & flirty pocket pal? Details below!

F4A

in online

Posted by mysticalkitt

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by No_Brilliant_6021

1 day ago

View Post: 30f4m looking for a tall fit and handsome whose down for a CLEAN phone call later?

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30f4m looking for a tall fit and handsome whose down for a CLEAN phone call later?

F4M

Posted by No_Brilliant_6021

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by kingshuk26

1 day ago

View Post: 25 [F4M] online / USA

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25 [F4M] online / USA

F4M

Posted by kingshuk26

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Impressive-Craft1799

1 day ago

View Post: 33 [F4M] #EST #online - looking for a pocket boyfriend

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33 [F4M] #EST #online - looking for a pocket boyfriend

F4M

in EST

Posted by Impressive-Craft1799

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago in EST

to r/OnlineAffairs by aromatic_mud8128

1 day ago

View Post: 25 [F4M] Open Position for Pocket Obsession

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25 [F4M] Open Position for Pocket Obsession

F4M

Posted by aromatic_mud8128

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to r/OnlineAffairs

1 day ago