Edit: can't fix my typo in the title. What an idiot!

Hi! I posted a few weeks ago and had some great conversations, but they kind of fizzled so here I am again. I guess that's how it goes. Sorry if this became a long read, but hopefully it helps us find each other.

I'm a guy. Late 30s, married, with a life I love. Eastern USA time zone. I have no sad story, no lack of fulfillment or intimacy. I just crave more. And I'm looking for someone in a similar situation.

I'm looking for someone to flirt with and chat with and keep company. Someone who understands where I'm coming from. We can be honest together and not judge each other. We might not always be available to chat but we'll never leave each other hanging. We can both carry the conversation.

Naughty stuff is a part of it for me for sure, but it's definitely not everything. I want to get to know you first. The SFW and NSFW parts of our conversation enhance each other. The "friend" part is at least as important as the "benefits" part to me.

Here's what I'm looking for in my ideal mischief partner: - is in a similar situation like I described above. This is crucial. - is around my age or older. This is important but far less so. - is able to keep up a conversation - is willing to build some rapport and trust before anything gets spicy - is in the same time zone, or would be willing to help figure out a way to make our times work. - is not obsessed with looks, either mine or yours. The connection is the turn on here. If you're friendly, confident, and fun to chat with, you're already attractive to me. That said... I love a cute smile! - pays attention to things like keeping the tense consistent on a list like this - generally shares the same values as I do (we'll talk)

I know there are many reasons to be here, but I don't think anyone here should feel like they need to be the gatekeeper for anyone else. We're all looking for our thing.

Anyway, if you read this far... well, I'm impressed and a little surprised! Send me a chat. Tell me about what you enjoy in a vacation. Talk to you soon!