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Oftentimes men complain about women here because they respond to an ad but it’s crickets. Nothing. No response from the woman. After posting a few times myself, I realize it’s because of the sheer volume of responses that come through. She’s not ignoring you. It’s a lot to keep up with.
Sometimes a conversation starts but then nothing. It fades out. Often we assume we’ve been ghosted. At this point some people take it way too personally. Some idiots may even get abusive. Remember though…Reddit chat sucks and we don’t always get all of our messages. Other times we are not notified of new messages and they get lost in the sauce.
Finally, it can be very tiresome going over the same questions over and over and over again with different people. Be natural. Don’t be a cookie cutter with your conversations. The other person will appreciate it.
Special note to the women: Be yourself. Don’t compare yourself to other women here and cross your own boundaries to try and please men. All of you have good qualities. If it works out, great! If not, move on. You’ll be much happier.
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