My first confession is that I actually lead a pretty great life. I have a fun job with people I care about and it actually enables me to live/work our of almost anywhere. I've done fairly well overall and things are great, if not a little run-of-the-mill.

I'm married, love my wife and don't plan on changing that for anyone.But this is where you come in. Perhaps we both just want to get out of our respective ruts by sending each other some fun and passionate messages. Perhaps we can develop a relationship that will enable us to live out some fantasies that we wouldn't otherwise be able to. Whether that's online or in person is something I'm excited to find out about but I'm fine if it only ever stays online. I have no expectations, other than making each other smile.

This is me: College educated and working on the business side of software development. I love being organized and I take pleasure in mundane things like spreadsheets. I also love sports, with hockey being at the top when it comes to watching and running when it comes to getting moving myself. I love to laugh and feel close to others. I'm in decent shape but like most around this age and during the pandemic, I could probably afford to lose 5lbs or so. Fine, maybe around 10.

Maybe you: You're mature but playful when it counts. You're confident, real and don't take yourself too seriously. You love to travel and explore new places and cultures. You take pride in what you do and you've got (most of) your life in order.

Let's get to know each other and have fun in the process. Reply to me with your situation and what you're looking for. I love long messages but am fine using the chat feature as well. I may not send messages every day, but it'd be great to find someone who'd make me excited to log in. Please note that I only use Reddit to communicate and don't plan on changing that. I'm mostly online after 9pm EST.

Thanks for stopping by and I can't wait to learn more about you!