Good afternoon all.

I'm a childless married guy in California. My only dependents are a beautiful dog and an army of all the stray cats on my block. I know most of the cats by name and take them to the vet. It's more responsibility than I signed up for, but I'm leading with this information to weed out people who don't like animals.

I've seen people on here identify themselves as extroverts or introverts or somewhere in the grey matter between, but I can't tell if that's relevant to an online relationship. For what it's worth, I'm a hard extrovert. I'm energized by being around people. If socialite was a college major, I would have pursued that as a career. Again - not sure if that matters in this space, but it does mean I have a lot of stories.

Sexually, I'm mostly attracted to women, but it's not beyond me to put an M4A tag on my post instead of an M4F. I'm down for dirty chats and RPs, but that's not my primary reason for posting here. I want to catch some feels and find someone to chat with openly and honestly.

For interests: I'm a person who likes to make things. I'm an artist by trade, and am renovating my house mostly on my own. That means I'm becoming a better wood worker to build things like custom cabinets and bookcases. I also paint and sculpt and brew beer and develop my own photography. That means I don't consume a lot of pop culture. I have Netflix because my wife likes it. I don't think I've used it in months.

I look fine. I attract attractive people. Your looks don't really matter to me. I'm here for your ability to write. If you have a sexy voice and want to exchange audio messages... that's a different story.

Also, age is not that important. I tend to connect better with older people, but I really don't care so long as you're legal and interesting.

Finally, I'm interested in finding someone who's in a similar situation when it comes to privacy. I have very little of it right now, so I can't message throughout the day. I have to find odd hours to write thoughtful things, but if we strike something up I will respond. That also means that I'm basically just looking for one person. I wouldn't have time to give proper attention to much more than one person.