So.....I have had a few conversations here. Some have been fun. Some have been interesting and some fun and interesting. Some right out of the gate. Others when I thought were going well....silence.

But, alot here say they are looking for something long term. Alot say they wont drop off.....yet....they do.

I am not opposed to sexting. I am not opposed to going somewhere else and sharing pics. I am not opposed to simply chatting with flirting thrown in for fun. If you atleast say upfront what you want then atleast I will know.

If you have read this far.....I'm obviously married. I'm 54. I have kids yes....don't care if you do or not. Blah blah...dead bedroom.....blah blah. I also dont care your reasons for being here. Age wise I am open.

Shit....are you still reading? Usual disclaimer not looking to change anyone's situation. Realize you have a life same as I do and that sometimes replies will be slow.....for both of us.

God damn....you deserve a medal for getting this far. Be upfront. If you dont feel it working, say so. If I said something you dont like, say so. Be an adult about it. I treat people how I want to be treated...and I don't like ghosting. I don't need head games and neither do you, just because this is online doesn't mean we can't be polite, and respectful.

You can reply here, or send me a private chat. You can try the mail thing, but I don't find it works well on the phone app. Please start with more than "hey".

PS: I do travel for work. So not saying it will happen, but....the right person.....could happen if that was a thing.