I am no longer able to commit to reading future responses to this post. I would like to keep this in my history if possible in case I find need to post again in the future.

I appreciate your understanding and consideration.

Original post:

Just recently stumbled upon this subreddit and am so thankful as it feels like it's the kind of forum I have been searching for years. I have had a fair number of online romances with people both attached and unattached but as a married woman not looking for an escape plan I would love to build someone with the same situation.

I feel sexually stifled at home. I am kinky and wanting to explore new things. I want to talk about sex and fantasies and expand the repertoire. My husband is happy with our routine and conversations to change this have not lead to much. Otherwise I am in an ideal marriage. I do not believe there is a more suitable person to be my primary partner. That being said I am capable of loving more than one person. I had an online partner for over a year that I felt genuinely enhanced my life and my marriage. I was a better and happier person having both him and my husband in my life. That ended a few years ago and I am ready to look for someone new.

What this someone looks like: -Married, obviously -Over 30 but under 50. (I am a little more flexible with the lower limit but you'd have to be exceptional and mature) -College Educated - High emotional intelligence. Someone who is comfortable talking about their feelings and willing to get a little swept up by them. - Particularly drawn in by people who enjoy philosophy, speculative fiction, art and art history, literature, and puzzles (not necessarily jigsaw puzzles but figuring things out, solving problems, game theory, etc) -Sense of humour is a must. What girl doesn't get wet with witty banter. -Keen to voice chat when privacy allows -US based probably works best for timezones

Please note that I did not post requiring this person be male. While I expect whatever responses I get to come from men, I am more than willing to explore this journey with a woman. I also didn't specify looks because attraction is a total packages thing for me. I generally like taller men. Happy with everything from fit to Dad bod because facial attraction is key and difficult to describe.

Why me:

I am intelligent, articulate, delightfully snarky and some might even say witty. I am confident, expressive, and kinky. I rock the naughty librarian look and have an impressive rack. I am willing to respond to every reply even if it's to say I don't think we are a match.

With the current Covid19 situation I have a lot more flexibility to text during the day but in the longer-term I mostly text after dinner before bed.

Willing to accept free form replies but if you would like a prompt:

Please tell me your favorite thing about your spouse. Do you have experience with Online affairs? Why you're the best person for me to connect with At least one kink