I'm a wordy motherbugger, but let’s try to cut to the chase. I’m looking for someone who I find physically attractive and who finds me physically attractive. (Aren’t we all?)

As if that’s not already hard enough to find, I'm also looking for someone who can engage in conversations that are “orgasmic.” And what I mean by that is that exchanging messages each day is just pure pleasure – so much so that we’re constantly looking forward to hearing back from one another. And the topics don’t even have to always be exciting. We’re just happy to hear from another. We talk about anything and everything – from the most private thoughts to the most mundane happenings. We simply have great interest in one another.

Yes, we have our own lives, and we are busy people. So, we may prefer one or two lengthy messages a day rather than live, rapid-fire chatting (although there might be occasions when we do that). And sometimes we might not be able to respond as soon as we like because of life. But somehow, we'll make time for one another - even if it's the next day or the day after. We care about each other. And, over time, let’s see what develops – whether it be a close friendship or more.

If that sounds like the right “game” for you, let’s check then if we have the right “players.”

About me: I'm Asian, 38, married with kids, in the Washington, DC-area (more specifically NoVA, Northern Virginia). I'm relatively attractive (but aren't we all, relatively?). I'm really chatty (a natural storyteller). I love to sing. I'm a former athlete (track and football), so I'm in fairly good shape even though I don't work out as much as I used to or as I'd like to. If height matters to you, I'm 5'8". I'm also a former overachiever who is now without a checklist (something I need to work on). I don't do drugs. I don't drink. Heck, I don't even swear (in person, anyway, but oddly enough will on occasion via chat). :) Not that I'm against any of that. Just not what I do. I'm also into sci-fi, fantasy, crime solving (shows, books, etc.), superhero stuff, "chick flicks," and romantic comedies (to name a FEW). YouTube and Netflix are my friends. (Hulu used to be until they started charging ... haha. Sorry, I also laugh at my own jokes sometimes.)

About you: I think if you clicked on this post and have read this far (and enjoyed it), we are probably compatible enough to engage in a conversation to at least get to know one another to see what sort of chemistry we have. I don't need to say what your likes and dislikes should be or say you should have this quality or that characteristic. I think the same goes for appearance as well. While we all have preferences, I've come to realize that it's probably not a good idea to describe what type of women I tend to be attracted to. In doing so, I may discourage someone really great from responding.

So, since you've gotten this far, send me a message already! And don't worry about writing a catchy, Pulitzer prize-winning first message. I'm not going to ignore your one-liner. I'm a guy. Our inboxes don't get flooded with messages like women. :) And I will reply.

ALSO ... if you made it this far, enjoyed what I wrote, but have decided NOT to message me, can you at least upvote this post? I've been told that the other men on subs like this will intentionally downvote M4F posts so they won’t get any attention. So, if you're not who I'm looking for (or vice-versa), would you help this hopeless romantic better his chances of finding them by upvoting this? Thanks! And I wish you luck on your search as well!

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