I’ll get straight to it—I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation, just to enhance it. I’ve been married for over a decade, I have kids I adore, and I don’t bash my wife. But like many, I’m missing an emotional connection, and we all know what that means for the bedroom. I want more than just routine - I want the butterflies, the thrill, the stolen moments that make life feel alive again.

I’m looking for a woman who gets it. Someone intelligent, independent, and married but craving that extra spark. A partner-in-crime who wants a pocket man to text and flirt with throughout the day, exchange knowing glances over video calls when we can, and keep things exciting with our shared wit and chemistry.

A little about me:

• I’m 6’2, broad-shouldered, with dark hair, dark eyes, and a face that tells a story. Not classically handsome, but uniquely striking, rugged with a few scars that add to the character. Think more “leading man with an edge” than “pretty boy”.

• I’m half Latino, half European, with a passion for music, cinema, and books. If you have a favorite song, I want to hear it. If you love a film, I want to know why.

• I love to cook (my kids approve), stay active in the gym, and explore the outdoors. But I’m also a sucker for a great video game session and quality time with my kids.

• I have an artistic side, a sharp sense of humor, and a taste for deep conversations. Small talk is fine, but I’d rather know what drives you, what excites you, and what keeps you up at night (besides me).

I’ve done this before, so I know how to keep things light, fun, and discreet. I’m on the east coast and open to meeting in person when the time is right. I’m drawn to women 30-45 who take care of themselves like I do. Confidence and self-care are sexy.

And if you enjoy a little push-and-pull in conversation, a man who knows how to lead, and the thrill of teasing anticipation... well, let’s just say you’ll find me very enjoyable.

If this sounds like the kind of excitement you’ve been missing, let’s talk. Tell me something about yourself that I won’t be able to forget.