When you think of an AP what comes to mind for you? For me….

It’s someone GROUNDED it what they want, need and expect. It’s someone that is around more often than not, that I can talk nonsense with all the way to serious current events. That I can ramble with, but on more taxing days, be comfortable sitting back and not having to control the conversation. Someone with Witt, humor, passion about things they do. Someone that understands we can’t always be flirty and fueled up, but need to nourish one another in the harder moments. Someone who makes you smile when you see their message and can’t wait to hear from them again. Genuine excitement. Someone that is proud to call you theirs and actively seeks to spend time with you both socially in group settings and privately in dm. I am actively social in the discord community in groups and want someone that is as well. It serves as a healthy dynamic for me in this lifestyle. I find myself to be attractive, but am also a demisexual and have to be mentally stimulated to feel a connection with someone. I am a fan of the outdoors, sports, music, and just being … mellow. I have a high stress job and like to be more casual and comfortable when it’s my relaxing time. Can’t we just watch hells kitchen and talk shit about the contestants, or any sports on tv and make a silly wager and giggle while cuddling on the couch.

Does this sound like you? I do prefer someone 35-45, as close to pst as possible because feeling like we’re going through the day together is a bonus. Not a fan of someone going to bed at 730-8 my time. This post is on OA, so no, we will never be meeting in person. That’s a hard boundary for me. Married please. I don’t want some single person trying to check off a kink box. If you’ve read this far, and are genuinely interested, send a selfie and your Super Bowl pick. Bonus points if you have an opinion on the Luka trade.