Hey! I hope your having a great hump day! So here I am, at work. Been scrolling through my phone and it hits me that I am so beyond lonely which sucks bug time. Been married for a long time and it's gotten to the point where it's just going through the motions.

Enough of that let's talk about what I am looking good for. I want to find that one person that I can connect with emotionally, physically, on every level. I want it to be like borderline toxic! Let's take every chance we can talk and message about everything and anything! Let's be the real us with each other. No fake bullshit! I would also love to find a lady that is more dominant then submissive but that's a minor thing.

I am 39, married, a dad to older kids. I have all my hair, I am tall, chubby dad bod. Yes that means I have a belly. Deal with it lol if it's not your thing that's ok! I am 420 friendly and would prefer you be as well. I usually go for chubby, bbw, voluptuous, curvy, big girls. That's my type. But what matters to me more is connecting with your personality. That's a big thing for me. I am a nerd, so yes that means I play video games, watch scfi and fantasy movies and shows. I enjoy music, cooking, food, whiskey. I do not hike or go to the gym. You have been warned lol Availability is important to me, so please have the time to actually talk! That means messages, voice notes, pics, videos, all of that stuff that helps us build and maintain that connection. If we hit off I will only move to Telegram. I am to fucking old for Snapchat lol I want an actual relationship! I suppose I am looking for that online relationship, girlfriend, maybe even someone i can call my wife.....

So if you made it this far through my rambling what's wrong with you lol jk Send me a message, tell me about you! Effort is sexy! I put in the effort here, so please put some effort in with your first message! Grab my attention! I really hope to hear from you! I know your out there!
To show me that you have read my entire post, in your first message tell me what your favorite season is!