Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don’t. Maybe, usually, I think I don’t. But I’m clever, handsome, honest, resourceful, and somewhat selfish… is that worth someone great?

What I bring; attention, attraction, consistency, dialogue, and self awareness. I want someone who is seen as the “complete package”. Highly attractive, intelligent, creative, kind, and weird. I may think everyone is weird - if you don’t think of yourself as a little weird…that’s weird to me.

I’m a family dad. I love my kids. They kick my ass and keep me very busy. You could say I’m “in the trenches” but sympathy makes me vomit. Don’t say that. Being a stay at home parent is simultaneously a miserable never ending challenge and the most awe inspiring work. Coffee and mindfulness practice keep me towards the latter experience.

Each connection is different. Especially with someone great. We all have a similar thread but very different experiences and needs.

I’m lonely often. Sometimes brash. I can be sweet and poetic or challenging. I enjoy a woman that keeps me on my toes but also understands the difficulties in communicating online with a stranger. So please don’t be too coy that you don’t speak your needs. I get along best with those who do and, if you’re worried about my feelings, know that I’m an emotionally mature adult who can handle big feelings.

Physically I’m skinny but fit. No one would mistake me for a linebacker but they might think twice before challenging me to a race. Im usually “hottie approved.” Conventionally handsome with a little scruff. I’ve got shorter brown hair with more salt every year and a Potteresque perpetual bedhead.

As a guide; 26-36, in shape to fit, pretty eyes, problematically attractive, smarter than me, and a good sense of humor. Time zones don’t matter much but I’ve struggled with Australia