I'm looking for you. The answer to that throb you've always had and never been able to fully satisfy. The fantasy at the back of your mind as you yawn through another boring sexual encounter. The secret orgasm that always feels so hollow because it's from your own fingers, but it's still closer than what vanilla sex makes you feel. You yearn for more. Ache for more. NEED more. To be claimed. To be owned. To have your body respond to the strings of another. To have your mind revel in the delicious freedom of letting go. To feel pleasure like you always knew was out there but could never attain. I'm looking for you.

I'm what you are looking for. I am the hand around your throat. The leash wrapped around the hand. The collar that sparkles against your throat. I'm the need in your pussy and the heights of an orgasm you've never felt but always craved. I am experienced. I am real. I know what I'm doing and I'm not one of the paper "doms" on reddit. I'm 6'1, about 200 lbs. Broad shouldered build. I have an established life and career. But I have significant time for the right submissive.

The fine details: I live in Seattle, I am married, but I'm open to long distance or local connections with real, authentic people. I'm looking for someone who can hold a conversation, be engaged and eager. Attentive. Someone who knows that they need someone like me.

I am attracted to slim, slender, and sometimes athletic women. I have no preferences in regards to ethnicity or location as long as you can be readily available when I expect you to be. I have no preference in regards to relationship status, with the same caveat as above. I'm comfortable in dynamics with experienced or inexperienced people, everyone starts somewhere. As long as you are eager to learn. I'm also ambivalent to age, although if you're still in your teens(18 , though), we would have to quickly determine if we have similar things to even talk about.

Kinks(not requirements, but a general sense): Control. Cock worship. Collars, leashes, tail plugs. Rules. Tasks. TPE. OTK Barehanded spankings. Breeding. Nipple clamps. Mental domination. Wardrobe control. Honesty (this one's required). Many more, and you can certainly message me if you're curious to know what the more intense things on the unlisted list are. ;)

I am not interested in any sort of age-based play (regression, littles/middles/etc), and I'm not crazy about the bratting subculture.