What I'm looking for:

• Married and a parent. No exceptions. Preferably with kids in school. It helps us relate being in the same place in life.
• Not a fan of the current presidential administration. You have empathy and like to think.
• Not a cake eater, just looking for NRE or are just bored. You're in DB with possibly a bit of a shoddy marriage.
• Looking for something exclusive. You want to build something that will last.
• You've done this before with some success. Especially online and that has lasted a while. You know what it takes. The effort. The care. The attention to detail. You aren't careless with thoughts or feelings whether they are yours or mine. You aren't gonna back out at the last second. You're ready.
• Not asking for pics up front. We are gonna get to know each other first. No point in seeing what we look like if we don't even get along. I will say I've gotten more Oooos than Ehhhs once we get to the pics, but beauty, as always, is in the eye of the beholder.
• Love is off the table. But several other L words are not; longing, deep, deep like, lust and I'm sure more. We'll think of some. This will be real feels though.
• I saw another post mention stalker tendencies preferred. Basically that. Once we get past the intro and trust stage, I want to be all in. Share our lives. As much as we can, as often as we can. Too much is never enough.
• At least 38. Older is definitely ok. Again, just easier for us to relate. 
• You aren't a model, neither am I, but you take pride in your appearance, even if no one at home notices any more. You are ready to be appreciated again. Let's make each other comfortable in our own skin. Figuratively and literally when the time comes.
• You have a libido. An active one. Maybe an over-activate one. That's something we can have in common.
• PST or close is preferred. Helps with communication. The important thing is that our availability matches. I'd love for this to be IRL occasionally, but this will mostly be our medium and the way we share our lives. We have to make the most of it.
• Quirky, off beat, silly, odd... anything but normal. You have a personality that maybe is misunderstood or not appreciated. I want to experience it.
• You have passions. Things you like. Things you hate. Things that amaze you. Things that move you. Share them with me. I want to know all about it.
• You like to converse. You enjoy back and forth. Sometimes I lead, sometimes you do. Neither of us will have to do all the heavy lifting all the time. 
• Not using this as a way out of your marriage/relationship. I'm not a tool or means to a divorce or separation.

What I bring:

• Passion. Lots of it. I will think about you night and day. You'll get the good mornings, good nights and everything in between as long as you promise to match me. 
• Attention. I crave it. I want to give it. Lots of it. I want to be infatuated with you, and you with me. I want us to be obsessed with each other.
• Humor. I like to laugh. There is usually a one liner in me somewhere just waiting. I want to make you laugh and smile.
• Effort. I'm not afraid of it. I know what it takes. I'll give you everything I possibly can at every turn. I want you to feel me with you, even in the times I can't be.
• The everyday. I'm not gonna message you only when bored or horny. I'm gonna share the little everyday stuff as much as the deep, passionate, naughty stuff. I want to celebrate all your victories, big and small, as well as support you when the times are tough. I want to know about your day. What you think. How you feel. Every possible moment. Please do the same.
• Actions that match the words; I'll do what I say and say what I do. You should be the same. I won't just say things and not follow through with the actions to show it. Of course there will be times we may get unexpectedly busy, life being life and all, but we will always do for each other at all the given opportunities.
• This will be a real relationship with real feels. Communication is key. If you're gonna stop the good mornings/nights after a few days, I'm not for you. If you are gonna disappear for a day(s) without warning, we're not gonna last.

So, what do you think?