As with many people who post to this sub, this is not my first time here, and likely won’t be the last. We all aspire to find that white whale of a long term online AP, but the pool is not deep and the schedules and timezones do not line up. So we keep looking, and hoping.

So, me. I’m tall (6’4) with short black salt and pepper hair, glasses, hazel eyes, dark features, athletic build. I feel I’m pretty attractive but that’s almost mostly subjective. I wear my heart on my sleeve, I’m very chatty and flirty, and I enjoy people who are the same. If you write me a lovely and genuine opening message, I will return in kind. I’m Australian, so I have a fun accent but timezones can be wonky. I’m happy to try with any and I’m very flexible.

I’m quite a sexual person, but I’m not just looking to sext. I’m open, non judgemental, have a decent number of kinks and want to explore them. I want to talk about all sorts of deep thoughts and desires. Those things you can’t talk to your husband about and that I can’t talk to my wife about!

I don’t really have a preference around looks - mutual attraction is very important and I would want to share pictures early, but I don’t have a type at all. Curvy, skinny, whatever, it’s all welcome. I would preferably like you to be 28 , mostly due to being on the same page and being comfortable in your skin. If you are kind, loving, fun and spicy, we will click.

I love to share myself - selfies, voice notes, videos - when able and possible. I would want someone who is the same - I feel this grows chemistry in an online relationship and makes it feel more real. If this isn’t your bag, I’m probably not for you. Text alone just isn’t enough.

Please send me a chat (that isn’t just hi!, tell me about yourself!), I would love to meet you.