40, married with kids and don’t feel any love from my spouse. Looking to find someone who cares again. I’d like to take things a bit slow and really build a friendship and emotional connection before we get too sexual.

I have a lot of interests and love to learn. I could listen to you tell me about your job, kids, or anything you want to say all day. Share because we care, right?

I enjoy being in the water, sports, coaching (all three kids), being outdoors, and snuggling up to and movie. Although I’m generally up for just about anything with the right company.

I’m pretty easy going, and believe in being kind, thoughtful, and genuine. It’s rare that I haven’t gotten along with a potential OA and usually get the “you’re a really great guy” or “I wish my husband was like you” monikers.

Physically I’m just over 6 feet tall. I’m a large framed man. Think Jason Kelce instead of Travis Kelce. I am trying to lose weight, but don’t mistake this words for being out of shape. I play full court basketball weekly for about two hours with lots of fast breaks and few breaks in play. That said, not everyone is into the big men, and that’s ok… just know what you’re getting into please.

I find beauty in all women, and am attracted to most. You could be petite, bbw, or somewhere in between and it’s all good. I’m looking for a cute woman and a fun personality who makes me smile and always want more.

Looking forward to hearing from the elite women who read this. Please share your favorite 70s or 80s… and yes, you may have just realized I have an eclectic taste in music.