Hi.

Let me preface this by saying I prefer Australian time zones, we are already a rarity in this sub but I have found that EST or any other weird acronym that isn't AEST doesn't work for us. Sorry.

About me..
I'm married. No kids. I have been told one too many times that I am attractive that it probably makes it true. I'm proportionately sized. I love reading, learning, discussing anything deep, or where the conversation bounces off each other with how excited we are about a topic. I'm quite well educated and work a pretty good job. I can be an odd ball at times. I have been told my face doesn't necessarily match my personality (bubbly on the outside, reclusive and black cat energy inside). I can't do small talk so I will probably ghost you if you don't keep my attention engaged (I promise I'll keep yours).

I can't do overly emotional, but I can do reassurances because I'll need them too. I'm a relatively calm and guarded person initially but playful with the right person, so if you're willing to work with me to get to that level of comfort..? I have humour, sometimes it can be dark (most of the time), I've been defined as a princess that is also a sarcastic smartass so that level of banter is a must!

About you?
I love an educated man (older than me please.. it's a maturity thing unless you convince me otherwise). Intelligent. Well spoken. Dominant. But gentle. I'll know pretty early on if we align. Open to sharing photos quite quickly for this reason because anyone who says attraction doesn't matter is lying.

I do tend to like men with darker features, a beard, glasses. Good bod. I'm not against dad bods - life happens! Plus it's so in currently. The nerdy types that make girls do double take, sleeper builds? Professors? Who knows. But I should also state I like giving everyone a fair shot. Look's aren't everything but they can be complementary or detractive.. :)

About what it will look like for us?
Long term partnership. You don't want to change, I don't want to change my situation, but we can live with the 'we were meant to be, but not in this lifetime' mentality. I'm open to meeting overtime, but definitely not rushing. Flirty texts and voice notes, pictures throughout the day, selfies as you please of me, and I hope of you - to give that well needed dopamine rush. Venting and comfort where required. Good morning. Good night. Let's just be 'us', before adulting, marriages, kids and laundry existed and see where the road takes us.

So yeah, if you meet my (probably unrealistic expectations), reach out?