Pure luck finding someone here? I just read that in a post and felt a little jolt. Experience tells me it’s right while something else inside me protests. I don’t want pure luck. It just seems a bit jaded. But perhaps that’s what it has come to, just throwing a post out there and hoping for the best while embracing a devil may care attitude. In this game, that actually sounds pretty good. Problem is, that’s just not me.

So who am I and what am I doing here? I’m a guy who stumbled in here in an idle moment and realized I was looking for something—something spicy, something smooth, something special. I’m looking for that smooth vibe where we enjoy one another on multiple levels. We don’t have everything in common and that’s ok because that makes it interesting. I’m looking for that elusive special connection (such a cliche word but can’t think of another) that while it requires intentionality mostly seems to flow. And of course what fun would it be without the spicy teasing, tension, enjoyment and release together.

By now you’ve put some things together about me. I’m intelligent and well spoken (or written). I’d like that from you too. I’m thoughtful and considerate which means I listen and look forward to conversations that have substance in addition to the banter and checking in of life. In terms of the details everyone seems to want here, I’m a 50 married male in MST. I’m a fit, clean cut professional. I get along with many types but you should know in daily life I’m a pretty chill and “vanilla” guy. With the right person though we will press those boundaries in the appropriate times and places—that’s half the fun. Oh and I’m a morning person, not a night owl so while I’ll be thinking of you through the night, I can’t offer endless evening chats.

I’m not looking for a specific age or body type. I’m looking for you if you’ve read this far 🙂 because you’ve been captured by something here.