Hello!

I am a visionary man. I have visions of a life well lived. For me this looks like sharing my life with somebody who aligns with my worldview.

Somebody with little boundaries or limits when it comes to us, built on a foundation of trust and communication.

Built around mutual respect and someone with an equally high sex drive.

I don't want sex to be the only focus of our relationship, but low sex drive won't work for me.

I am high desire, sex positive, and open-minded.

Trust and safety first, and then ask and it shall be given. With great expectations should come great communication.

I like to know the why of things.

I am curious.

I want to find a beautiful mind inside a healthy body and adventurous spirit.

I need a sharp wit and fantastic sense of humor: If you can laugh at the irony of our situation, we're off to a good start.

About Me:

• 45, with a smile that's white and delightsome.
• Thick fit, rocking a dad bod with muscles, because who said you can't be both comforting and hot? If we were playing two hand touch, I'd be a defensive tackle. Yes, I'm taking you down even though it's two hand touch.
• Hazel eyes that keep things interesting, even in Utah.
• Full head of hair
• I'm a tightrope-walk between light and dark, a fusion of INFJ and ENFJ.

I thrive in the spotlight but find my peace in the shadows.

On days when I'm feeling introspective I gravitate to thoughtful and imaginative.

I need to know the why.
I have lofty goals and ambitions.
I chase authenticity.

I want to explore the depths of human experience and emotion.

Some days I'm more extroverted and want to engage with the world around me.

I want to feel the energy of people. I want to help them be the best versions of themselves.

Most of all I want to find you.

I'm seeking more than fleeting excitement; I want to find love, passion, and a connection that resonates with my soul. Yes I see the irony in that statement as well.

If you can't do duality, we're likely not a fit.

You should be able to compartmentalize, but be ready to let me in.

Trauma bonding is fun and all, but I have my eye on the prize.

Living.

Time is short. I can't wait for you to say hello.