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I'm not sure whether this post is a curiosity or an invitation. Maybe a bit of both.
About me: 35, married 7 years, a kid. Not looking to change anything, yada yada. You've heard it before.
This isn't my first post, and when I read other posts I mostly get the vibe of: "I'd rather have a perfect happy marriage, but something's missing, so here I am". Basically, looking for a lost, missing connection.
But then I wondered - are there folks reading this sub who actively like the idea that they're pulling attention away? Maybe they're not even married themselves, but just browsing. I can imagine it - it must be a bit of a high, knowing you can wrap a lonely, attention-starved guy around your finger.
Am I one of those people? I wouldn't have thought so. I feel plenty of shame and guilt. But also it's a bit exciting?
I'm not sure. If anything in this ramble spoke to you, reach out!
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