Do you have that niggling feeling in the back of your head? The one that says it wants you to grin like an idiot at your phone, to share laughs, to shamelessly flirt, to get altogether intertwined with one another and to make each other feel oh so very alive. I've got it bad right now. That bit of my brain flashing like a beacon saying "Find her, find her, find her. You know the one, that awesome, funny, flirty, complicated, colourful one." and so here I am, hoping that you're her, reading this and thinking that you really need to reach out and maybe that niggling feeling is starting to fade already in anticipation of our amazing connection.

So as you can perhaps gather from all that I guess I'd say I'm a wordy and imaginative sort of guy. I'm in a 13 year LTR that is a dead bedroom. A former party animal who now certainly prefers a cosy night in, preferably with my much loved dog nestled at my side. Something of a nerd I enjoy some amount of gaming in my downtime, but don't live and breathe it. I appreciate good TV, which for me will usually take the form of drama, thriller, sci-fi, fantasy or comedy. Above all I appreciate good company and good conversation, something that isn't always easy to find. I'd say I get on best with those who are fun and bubbly, the natterers. The ones who can talk about anything and nothing and those not afraid to embrace a little imagination or silliness.

I don't have any kids, just my doggy. I don't mind if you do though. I have good availability for messaging, but not really for voice/video calls if that is important to you, but will certainly drop a voice note when the opportunity is there. I totally understand that we have lives and commitments separate to each other, but I do want someone where I feel the enthusiasm. That they are as fully in it as I am. If you're busy that is okay, but too many short, blunt, lifeless messages in a row will tend to kill things off. I mentioned that I'm in a dead bedroom and so the sexual connection is important to me. That doesn't mean that I feel the need to jump right there out of the gate, or that that means exchanging a list of clumsy expletives with someone who's still a stranger. I am not here for the nudes (but would hope we'd get to the point of wanting to share those eventually), I'm not mistaking this for porn or a quick fix. I am kink friendly if that interests you, but my heart is by no means set on that. I want another human being who I'm excited to get to know and who is excited to get to know me too, to feel that sense of desire and being desired. That is what I feel the lack of more than the deed itself.

In terms of looks, I'm 5'10", slim with pale skin and short dark brown hair with some greys, no beard, just some goatee stubble. Not a perfect 10, but don't think I'll have you reaching for the blanket to throw over my head.

I don't mind about your age, body type or location, the good connection and chat are the most important things to me, but I'm happy to share pictures to check for a base level of attraction to go with our sparky dialogue.

Hopefully some of that appealed and you're itching to chat and see if we click - shoot me a message and let's see!