38, married, professional. I’m petite, athletic, and I take pride in my appearance and health. I’m not here for endless back-and-forths; I want something real—something that clicks. Physical attraction matters, and that’s where we start.

You:

Age: 34-43 (This is non-negotiable, so don’t try to sell me on your “youthful spirit.”) Height: 5'9" - 6'0". It's difficult for me to be attracted to anyone over 6'0"; I feel it’s just incompatible. White, married, athletic, with a full head of hair—not some patchy attempt at regrowth. Clean-shaven or with stubble—no beards or tattoos. Seriously, I’m not interested in the “find yourself” journey type of look. Be someone who takes pride in your appearance and health. Also, I’m not here to listen to sob stories about your “dead bedroom” or how your wife “rejects” you. I’m not a therapist, and frankly, it’s a quick way to kill any attraction. And no cake eaters, please.

I know some guys like to settle, but I’m not here for that. If you’re just looking to coast or collect “safe” options, don’t waste either of our time.

What I’m Looking For: Intellectual stimulation, emotional connection, and physical attraction.

By the way, before we dive into deep conversations, let’s make sure the attraction is there. Feel free to share your picture here or on Telegram. I’m not going to burn mental energy only to find out I’m not attracted to you. Let’s keep it efficient.

I’m looking for an intellectual connection, emotional depth, and a physical bond that develops over time. Ideally, I’d like this to lead to real-life interactions, whether it’s meeting in person or traveling together. Let’s see if we have the chemistry to make that happen.

And if you’re upset about this ad, it’s probably because you were hoping to find someone who will cater to your needs. But that’s not me.